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(A proofreader's note regarding “who” and “whom”)
Words “who” and “whom” are pronouns both
That dress alike apart from hem.
Yet clothing fails to tell us who
Hath right of place when phrases aim.
One serves as subject, acting out,
The other, object—acted on.
Think “who” might shout and dash about
Regardless “whom” imposed upon.
To know if subject pronoun is,
Try “he” or “she” to substitute.
Its nature true may object be
If “him” or “her” doth better suit.
Thus relative pronouns “who” and “whom”
As subject/object serve in clauses.
Sometimes a clause itself is subject;
Analysis then is cause for pauses.
But “whom” is choice for after “to,”
As is with prepositions most,
Which lead to object in the phrase
And hold that role to baldly boast.
Though language changes over time
And fashion cycles ever more,
The hem of “whom” remains the same,
While “who” advances to the fore.
“The man who came was one with whom
Most girls would flirt and, maybe, swoon.
And, yet, there were a few for whom
The day could never end too soon.”